What is bullying?

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Behaviour towards others

We’re all able to make a choice in how we behave towards others.

We can choose to be kind and helpful, or we could act in a way that is mean and unkind.

Learn why treating everyone with kindness is important in our community.

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What is bullying behaviour?

Bullying is a type of unkind behaviour, such as being mean to others on purpose.

Sometimes, people who bully others may be feeling sad or angry and might take their negative feelings out on other people.

By being responsible citizens we can choose to be kind to others and help stop bullying.

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What are some different types of bullying?

Image gallerySkip image gallerySlide 1 of 4, A picture of two children being unkind to another., Being mean Calling someone names, making fun of how they look or the way they speak are forms of bullying.
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What are some effects of bullying?

Bullying can affect people in lots of different ways.

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Bullying can affect your concentration and stop you from doing well at school.
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Bullying hurts peoples feelings and can stop them being who they want to be.
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Bullying makes people feel lonely and left out.
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How can we get help to deal with bullying?

If you or someone you know is being bullied there are things you can do to try and stop it.

  • Tell an adult - this could be your parent, carer or teacher.
  • Talk to the bully - ask the bully to stop.
  • Be with friends you trust - surround yourself with people that treat you well.
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Time to discuss

Talk about bullying with a friend or family member.

Think about these questions as you talk:

  • How do you think people feel when others make fun of them for how they look?

  • How should we treat people instead?

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Activity

Make a 'goodwill heart'

With the help of an adult, cut out the shape of a heart from a piece of paper.

Draw and write inside the shape some kind words and actions that you can think of.

Put your finished goodwill heart somewhere you can see it, or share it with a friend.

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Quiz

How much do you know about bullying behaviour? Try this quiz to see how much you can remember.

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